a sweet message

Often people won't believe me where I am coming from. Yes, I have been through a lot when I was younger. I became a better person because of my past. I am glad that I got this sweet message from Heather. A reminder that my love ones are proud of my accomplishments. 

"Hey there! Thanks for the Christmas card....it's good to see that you're doing well! Hows the job? Any chance of moving back to CA? On a more personal note...I was just reading an article that (I think Kristin or Priya posted)....took me back to the very first time I met you....your mom had forgotten to pick you up from school....so I gave you a ride home....we were walking up the driveway when I heard a baby crying....we then found that Ashley had been left in the car...when we pulled her out she was crying with a soaking wet diaper and clothes drenched with sweat from sitting in the car. Kandace, I am SO proud of the beautiful young woman that you are today....you have overcome so many trials, challenged and beat the odds, and are now giving back to others a part of what has been given to you. Know that every time I pass our refrigerator and see your picture- I think of you and say a quick little prayer- and send many good thoughts/wishes your way! Much Love Heather"

lighthouse

I don’t know why I connected to lighthouses so quickly. Before my lighthouse obsession started I was visiting Cope Cad and Martha’s Vineyard with a friend of mine last summer. He enjoyed taking different pictures of lighthouses. After we visited more lighthouses, I became hook with lighthouses. 

One day, I decided to do research on the symbolic meaning of a lighthouse. Most of the meanings and quotes I found was biblical related. I wasn't satisfied with my findings. I never finish with my research so I naturally forget about this. 

My friend, Megan, came to New York for my birthday weekend. Before we both went to a restaurant to meet rest of my friends for my birthday dinner… She asked me to open a gift because she excitedly couldn't wait for me to open the gift. She got me a beautiful Alex and Ani: Lighthouse Charm Bangle for my birthday. I love it! Even better, this gift included a card with the meaning of lighthouse. I am shocked to learn that it fit me well! I love this gift even more! 

LIGHTHOUSE

ILLUMINATION | COMFORT | RESILIENCE

A lighthouse is a welcoming structure, a reassuring sign of steady ground ahead, and an optimistic symbol of hope for all looking to move forward safety. It is an emblem of strength located at the edge of unpredictable tides as it provides navigational guidance and bright light in a storm. Resilient and immovable, this shining beacon encourages perseverance even in the darkest times. 

What do you think? Now I can say… I know why lighthouse is very special to me. One day… I would like to have a wedding by a lighthouse!